Q: How can I best approach the decision of whether to move to Arizona to care for my mother?
“It seems you have already decided in your heart, which is the best place to begin.
The real challenge is now dealing with your intellect. It prefers to always act in the absence of uncertainty. But without uncertainty, nothing would ever change.
The unknown is where all the magic happens, it is where serendipity, wonder and surprise spring forth. Uncertainty is the garden of possibilities. The unknown is where all dreams come true, where discoveries lie, where joy blossoms. Chase the unknown rather than shrink from it.
The only preparation you must make is to set your intention on what feelings you wish to experience in the encounter. If you will task your intellect with pre-playing the emotions you would ideally like to experience, it will have no time or energy for worry. This is how you make the intellect the willing partner of the heart. This is the secret to wholeness.”